Thrall Rules

  1. My purpose in life is to serve husband and make him happy. I know that I am nothing without him, I am nothing till he says otherwise.  I have nothing other than what he gives me.
  2. His needs are my needs. I will adopt his wants, desires and goals as my own.
  3. I will give all of myself in service to Husband. I will serve eagerly, in joyful obedience.  I will derive all my happiness through service to him.  I can only be happy if he is happy.  If Husband is unhappy I will feel anxious, sad and afraid until I make it right for him.
  4. I will consistently strive for perfection.
  5. I will  always listen to Husband.
  6. I will put him first in everything. His needs will always take preference to mine.
  7. I will look out for him.
  8. I will do what he says without hesitation.
  9. I will never blow off what he says or minimize its importance.
  10. I will treat him with respect.
  11. I will never interrupt him.  To interrupt means I think what I have to say is more important than what he has to say.  That is never the case.
  12. I will give him my undivided attention when he speaks. This means I will  stop what I am doing, look at him, and demonstrate understanding of what he is saying to me. If I was speaking, I will become immediately silent and listen.
  13. I will not become distracted when he is speaking to me.
  14. I will follow any command given to me immediately unless otherwise directed
  15. I will speak clearly when I speak with him.  I will not mumble.
  16. I will look at him when speaking to him.
  17. I will speak with a soft and kind tone of voice.
  18. I will always maintain an attitude of humility.
  19. I will always answer respectfully.  “Yes, Husband” is the only respectful response.
  20. I will never contradict him or argue with him.
  21. He is always right.  To contradict him automatically proves me wrong.
  22. I will never offer my opinion unless expressly asked.
  23. I will adopt his opinion on everything unless I can give a clear and intelligent reason why I believe I am right.
  24. All of my thoughts will become his.  He can tell me what to think. I will accept all he says as fact and rearrange my thoughts to go along with his. He defines me.
  25. I will never raise my voice at him or cry at him. It is contemptible and will not be tolerated.
  26. I will never question his authority. Questioning him is arrogant and implies that I think I know better than he does. 
  27. I will trust his judgement.
  28. I will accept and internalize his opinion of me.
  29. I will remember that I will never be his equal. 
  30. I will not try to make things “fair.”
  31. I do not always need to understand everything.  I will accept that he will tell me whatever I need to know.
  32. I must never make excuses.  Saying “I forgot” is an excuse.  I will not use the letter of the law as an excuse against the spirit of the law.
  33. I will not whine.
  34. When he corrects me, I will not get defensive.
  35. I will not beg.  All decisions are final.
  36. I will not provoke him.
  37. I will not waste his time.
  38. I will never complain.  I must do all he asks with a willing heart.  I will appreciate all that he has given me.
  39. I will never demand anything from him.
  40. I will always be grateful for whatever Husband does for or to me.
  41. My value to him will be based on my service
  42. I will thank him when he allows me to serve him. 
  43. I will never interrupt him when he is busy. 
  44. I will not cause Husband to repeat himself.  If he is obviously not listening to me, I will be silent until a time when he chooses to acknowledge me.
  45. I will not repeat myself in order to make my point or be heard.
  46. I will never say “I can’t, No, I don’t know, I am sorry, I don’t have time.”
  47. I will never judge or criticize him. He is always right.
  48. I will never judge or criticize others.  He will tell me what to think about the behavior of others. I will not elevate myself above anyone.
  49. When in doubt I am to be quiet.  There is nothing more repulsive to Husband than a mouthy woman. 
  50. I will never swear in public.  Swearing at home is to be a limited occurrence. 
  51. I will remember that my behavior in public reflects on him.
  52. I will trust Husband with all my being.  He has never given me a reason to distrust him, and to continue to do so would be wrong. 
  53. I will always be open and honest.  I will be transparent and hide nothing.
  54. I will be honest with myself as well.  I will seek the truth in everything.
  55. I will not hide things from him or manipulate. I will never lie.
  56. It is not up to me to decide what Husband wants to know about me.  I must be completely open to him at all times.  I will not hide any thoughts from him.  If he asks me what is wrong, or what I am thinking, I must tell him immediately, without hesitation.
  57. He will decide what others know about me.  I will not complain about what personal information he chooses to share with others.
  58. I am required to work.  All money I make is his. He can choose my career for me.
  59. When I am at work I am to do my job to the best of my ability as my performance at work is a reflection on him.
  60. I will not call off unless absolutely necessary.  I will not call off because I am in a bad mood.
  61. I will not sleep all day.
  62. I will always arrive on time for any appointments. 
  63. I will treat others with kindness and respect.
  64. I will carry myself with grace.
  65. I am to follow all rules related to using either of Husbands cars. (Never let gas go below ¼ tank. Use high octane, quality gas. Don’t park near anyone. Don’t eat in the cars. Lights on when driving. No music when pulling in to garage. Turn off A/C and radio before shutting off car. Use Emergency break when parking. Nothing on seats. Always lock car when not near. Drive smoothly. Don’t tailgate. Don’t start with other drivers. Always wear seat-belt. No running red lights. Don’t click turn signal. Lift hood after driving. Warm up and cool down car.  Keep washed.)  If I do not follow the rules the cars will be taken away.  Losing the car does not negate the requirement of working.
  66. People outside this relationship have been known to have a negative influence.  Therefore, I must ask Husband any time I want to contact anyone else, whether it is by phone, mail or email or in person.
  67. When Husband comes home from work I will meet him in the garage, raise the hood of his car, take in his bags from the car.  I will have a cool drink ready for him.  I will remove his boots and clothes when he comes in the house and I will have a comfortable outfit ready for him.
  68. I will not discuss anything of my day until he has time to settle at home and relax.
  69. Entertainment is not a right, it is something that I must earn.  Julian can decide how much free time I will have during a day.  If I do not have time to perform all of my tasks for the day, I obviously do not have time for entertainment.
  70. I do not own anything of my own. Any money, I make and any items I acquire are his.  Anything I owned prior to marrying him also became his.
  71. Most purchases for myself must be approved by Husband.   I may purchase anything under $20 without asking.  Anything I am told to purchase, I will do in a timely manner.
  72. I will make sure all bills get paid.  He will make all the financial decisions.
  73. If husband has friends over, I will serve them with the same attentiveness and respect I show Husband.
  74. I understand that I am his property and can never make the decision to leave.  If he decides I am no longer worth his time, I will leave immediately.  He would decide what I bring with me.
  75. I will remain in control of my emotions at all times.  If I do not feel I can control my emotions then I will leave the room. 
  76. He has the right to tell me what to feel and I must comply.
  77. I am not allowed emotional privacy.
  78. I will not worry.  Worrying is a sin.
  79. I will learn to change my attitude to coincide with his will.
  80. I will not get angry or moody.  I will not pout or sulk.  I will not cry at him or yell.
  81. I will not cling to him.  Clingyness is demanding.
  82. I will not demand anything of him.
  83. I will not have expectations of him, or how I think he should treat me.
  84. I will not expect or demand that he love me.  His love will follow my obedience.
  85. I will not demand access to his body.
  86. Exercise is required 6 days a week.  I will wear my polar to record my exercise.  I will review my workouts with husband.   I will put my full effort into my exercise.
  87. I will weigh and measure myself at least weekly and report it to Husband.  Husband decides how much I should weigh.
  88. I will take care of my health by drinking water, taking vitamins, eating healthy foods, exercising and making sure I get adequate sleep.  I will go to the doctor if necessary. 
  89. Husband may decide how much sleep I may have.  I am not to complain about being tired.  I will get out of bed when he tells me to.
  90. I will sleep naked.
  91. I must wake up with Husband and go to sleep when he goes to sleep.
  92. I will cook healthy meals.  I will serve him first and ensure he has the best portions.  He can decide how much or what I eat.
  93. I will not let his drinks run out.
  94. I will make sure coffee is set up the night before.
  95. I will learn to serve unobtrusively.
  96. I will ensure he always has food, snacks and drinks available.  I will shop weekly.  I will not throw out food. 
  97. Don’t leave shopping carts in the parking lot.
  98. I will keep the house clean at all times.  I will never leave dishes in the sink.  I will develop and follow a cleaning schedule.
  99. I will ensure he has a uniform ready at all times
  100. I will offer him massages every day.
  101. I will clean the cat boxes and make sure the cats are fed and watered.
  102. I will always look presentable when I am out.
  103. I will wear either lingerie or tight shorts/shirt when at home.
  104. I will wear my hair and makeup in a way that is pleasing to him.
  105. I will get my hair trimmed at least every 2 months.
  106. I will maintain impeccable hygiene
  107. I will be clean shaved and waxed at all times.
  108. I will keep my nails short.
  109. I will go to the dentist twice a year
  110. I will see a shrink if required.
  111. I will not engage in any self destructive behaviors or socialize with those that do.
  112. I will make an effort to learn new skills in order to please him.
  113. I will be home when I say I will be.  He will know where I am at all times.
  114. If at any time I break one of his rules and he is not aware of it, I must bring it to his attention immediately. 
  115. Husband has the right to punish me in any way he chooses.  I must submit to these punishments with a heart willing to learn.   I must never defend myself, fight back or argue with him.  He has the right to punish me for any reason.  It is not for me to decide whether or not I feel I deserve it.  It does not matter if the infraction was intentional or not.
  116.   He also has the right to punish me even if I did nothing wrong.   If he wants to hit me in order to show me my place, because he had a bad day, or for any other reason, than that is his choice.
  117. I do not own my body, Husband does.  He may use my body in any way he chooses.
  118. I will always be sexually available for him.
  119. I will service him as much as he desires.  I will cum from servicing him.  I will not demand any attention in return.
  120. His pleasure will be my pleasure.
  121. I will not hide my body from him. 
  122. I will show my desire for him.
  123. I will not get embarrassed of my desires.
  124. He could share me with others if he wanted to.
  125. He could be with another if he chose to be.
  126. It doesn’t matter what I feel only what I do.
  127. I will pay attention, always.
  128. I will stand up to others when told.
  129. I will focus on what I do have and not what I do not have.
  130. I will be direct and specific in my speech.  I will not over-simplify.
  131. I will not bother Husband with the mundanities.
  132. I will tell him if I do not understand his command.
  133. I will make the best choices possible when he is not around.  Doing nothing is not an option.
  134. I will observe Husband and learn everything I can about him.
  135. I may ask for advice or help if I am having difficulty doing something.  I will not expect Husband to do things for me.
  136. I have no limits, only what he gives me.
  137. I will continue to journal. 
  138. I will read my bible.
  139. I will be happy and grateful for even the most intense pain as it brings me into deeper enslavement.
  140. I will never give up, no matter how hard it is.


 
 
 
 
 
 
 
 
 

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